I am sorry for your loss. I too have lost a child; her name was Autumn - she was 6 mos and died from birth defects. I have 6 kids ranging in age from 20 to 2 and car seats have come a long way in the last 20 yrs. My 4 yr old just hit 40 pounds and was in a booster seat. After seeing Kyle's video, she has been moved to the Fisher Price Safe Voyage Deluxe. Thanks for saving my daughters life! You are truly a God send and I am glad that Kyle is a guardian angel to so many children and saving their lives. Thank you!